Where you might be. How I can help

Do you struggle with relationships?  Are you trying your best as a man but it's coming apart?  Perhaps you feel empty or bewildered about what your life is about?

You are not alone.

Many men struggle in their relationships - as a partner, as a father and as a friend. Even though we have many resources, actual interactions in the world can be fraught with guilt, anger and anxiety. So much so that we find ourselves soothing our soul with food, sport and alcohol.

Despite being able to generate enough money to feel safe enough in the world, we can find ourselves questioning what we’re doing, wondering whether we’re engaged in what is really of value. The need to find meaning in our lives often feels essential yet leaves us feeling empty.

My own search for meaning, along with my desire to live fully in relationships, has often driven me. These have become both a source of great satisfaction and joy, as well as a source of pain and struggle. Wrestling with these can leave us both blessed and limping.

I offer the opportunity to meet with another person at a deeper level - to have all of our parts welcomed as they are and to courageously explore what’s going on together, so that we can discover new ways forward. 

Working with men, relationships and meaning is my absolute passion because I’ve spent a lot of time trying to live in and work out the messiness of these parts of my own life. So, I don’t believe that there is a state of pure peace that we all can get to.


However, my expertise is to help you unleash your own personal powers for living within the tensions and messiness of real life.

Knowing that counselling can be an intimidating and mysterious thing to start, I offer a free 30-minite initial session. In this, you'll get to meet me, ask any questions you might have and suss out if I’m the right person to be working with. We can then set up regular sessions from there.

So, just get in touch using the form at the bottom of this page, or by phoning 07422 651829  or email info@thomasrowlandcounsellingservices.com.

Alternatively,  find out more about Working With me or read my blog, What is Counselling? If you still want to get to know me a little more first, check out the video below or my Blog.

Whatever your journey here and onwards, I wish you all the best.

Faith: An Honest Conversation


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07422 651829

To arrange a free first thirty-minute session, or simply to inquire further, you can email, phone or complete the form. I will get back to you as soon as possible.

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