A bit about me and how I work

Pebble Beach

Many of us struggle in our relationships - as a partner, parent and friend. Even though we have many resources, actual interactions in the world can be fraught with guilt, anger and anxiety. We quickly find ourselves soothing our soul with food, sport or alcohol whilst avoiding the relationships we crave.

We can also find ourselves questioning what we’re doing, stressed out in a job we're not even sure we chose, or wondering whether we’re engaged in what is really of value. The need to find meaning in our lives often drives us yet leaves us feeling empty.

My own search for meaning, along with my desire to live fully in relationships, has often driven me. These have become both a source of great satisfaction and joy, as well as pain and struggle. As I wrestle with meaning and love, I am find myself blessed and wounded.

I offer the opportunity to meet with another person at a deeper level - to have all of our parts welcomed as they are and to courageously explore what’s going on together, so that we can discover new ways forward. 

Working with relationships and meaning is my absolute passion because I’ve spent a lot of time trying to live in and work out the messiness of these parts of my own life. So, I don’t believe that there is a state of pure peace that we all can get to.  However, my expertise is to help you unleash your own personal powers for living within the tensions and messiness of real life.

Faith: An Honest Conversation

To find our more

Counselling can feel a bit intimidating and mysterious. So, I offer a free 30-minite initial session where get to meet me, ask any questions and explore working together. We can then set up regular sessions from there.

To arrange an initial session, just get in touch by completing the form, phoning 07422 651829  or emailing info@thomasrowlandcounsellingservices.com.

You can also find out more about Working With me or read my blog, What is Counselling? Or, if you want to get to know me a little more first, why not check out the video below or my Blog.

I look forward to being in touch.


Why do we need relationships that go deeper?

Why do you need relationships that go deeper?